Digital E-Neglect and Emotional Neglect. What Has Changed?

Author: Lynda Chebbihi
Photo: AI-generated image of a modern family emotionally disconnected.

The Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACE) study demonstrated that early instances of neglect are predictive of future challenges in emotion regulation, interpersonal relationships, and identity formation. Additionally, Judith Herman's work identified a correlation between childhood trauma and borderline features. Despite these findings, literature review on social media which has a small negative effect on youth mental health, predominantly derived from self-reported data, thereby limiting conclusions about causality. Nevertheless, developmental risks remain as adolescents increasingly seek connection and understanding online, at times without adequate supportive relationships.

From a humanistic perspective, behavioural patterns can be viewed as survival strategies in response to unsafe environments. In therapy, relational work addresses attachment experiences and helps build self-awareness and more adaptive behavioural and cognitive patterns aligned with the individual's authentic sense of self. Addressing digital habits, family dynamics, and early attachment history is essential. For parents and professionals, it is important to prioritise responsive, screen-free interactions and foster relational growth over symptom-focused interventions.

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Herman, J.L. et al. (1989). Childhood Trauma in Borderline Personality Disorder. American Journal of Psychiatry.